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BREAKTHROUGH 6

10 Breakthroughs From Ordinary To Extraordinary Love

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LESSON 6

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Breakthrough #6 - You Can't Measure Love

IN AN ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP…
YOU ASK, ‘WHO LOVES WHO MORE?’

IN AN EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIP...
YOU ASK, ‘HOW DOES MY LOVE IMPACT MY PARTNER?’

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LESSON DESCRIPTION

Commonly there is an unevenness to the balance of love. One partner often loves the other more, recreating the story of the insecure anxious and the avoidant, “the lover and the beloved” or “the teacher and the student”. Uneven relationships often have a yo-yo or push-pull dynamic, where one partner is constantly running away and the other is trying to close the gap. It is best (though difficult) to find a balance where each partner loves the other the same amount so that neither is creating or closing distance.

In this lesson, we look at the 6th breakthrough where you forget to measure how much love you are receiving from your partner and do something else instead. In an extraordinary relationship, one's focus isn't on who loves who more, but on something else entirely. Explore what that is and what you want to be measuring instead.

Focus on how you give love and share in the comments one key way giving your love impacts your partner positively?

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Upgrade the unhealthy personal beliefs you might be carrying around and install a set of 10 evolutionary principals

Complete a thorough self-investigation and inventory of the ways you unconsciously support and undermine your partnership

Discover the 6th breakthrough of extraordinary relating

Learn why asking the question 'Who loves who more?' won't lead you anywhere

Explore what you might focus on instead to create a more extraordinary relationship

CHALLENGE DAY#6

In your relationships do you tend to feel INSECURE or do you undeniably know that YOU ARE LOVED? What would happen if you realized you are loved and there's nothing more you or your partner needs to do to prove that? What happens when you focus on the impact your love is having vs how much love you are getting (or not getting)? Your challenge is to:

Anytime throughout the day take a moment where you might doubt whether you are fully loved and lovable, and find a unique way to love your partner.

BONUS: Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's & Don'ts

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As a special bonus we are including this Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's and Don'ts

There is a foundation of respect and common sense that must pervade all of your relationships if you want to create an extraordinary love. It doesn’t matter how well you waxed the car if you drive it off the road into a telephone pole.

These basic do’s, and don’ts, when violated, undermine any effort toward building an extraordinary love. The most powerful and expanding healings and epiphanies mean nothing unless these basics are handled.

GET MY LOVE GUIDE

“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

- Dr. Suess

REFLECTION QUESTION | Answer the question(s) below

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How does giving your love impact your partner?