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BREAKTHROUGH 7

10 Breakthroughs From
Ordinary To Extraordinary Love

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LESSON 7

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Breakthrough #7 - Bad Isn't Always Bad

IN AN ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP…
THE GOOD OUTWEIGHS THE BAD


IN AN EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIP…
THE BAD IS ACCESS TO MORE GOOD


RESOURCES

LESSON DESCRIPTION

Ordinarily, there are good parts of the relationship and bad parts. Maybe the sex is great, but the conversation isn’t very stimulating. Maybe you feel loved and supported, but not stretched and challenged to be the best version of yourself. The common view is to focus as much as possible on extending the good, and do what you can to make the bad parts tolerable, so you can move on as quickly as possible back to what’s good. In an ordinary relationship, the good outweighs the bad.

In this lesson, we'll look at the 7th breakthrough and how 'the bad' isn't always so bad as it can unlock the very thing we need most.

Share in the comments one example of a challenge or difficulty in your relationship that is actually giving you more access to good.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Upgrade the unhealthy personal beliefs you might be carrying around and install a set of 10 evolutionary principals
Complete a thorough self-investigation and inventory of the ways you unconsciously support and undermine your partnership
Discover the 7th breakthrough of extraordinary relating
Learn how the bad isn't always so bad and can unlock the very thin we are needing most
Explore an orientation to the difficulty in your relationships that will create a truly extraordinary relationship

CHALLENGE DAY#7

In your relationships does the GOOD OUTWEIGH THE BAD or is your mindset that the BAD IS ACCESS TO MORE GOOD? What if you could look forward to moments of difficulty and challenge? What happens when you frame those moments as the most exciting opportunity to grow and heal? Does this mindset bring more resource, lightness, and creativity? Your challenge is:

When a challenge big or small comes up, realize that what’s In the Way Is The Way and bring excitement and curiosity to that moment and notice how it feels to resolve it.
Reframe 1 thing that you have decided is bad about you, your life, the world or your partner and frame it as your access to exactly the growth you need right now.

BONUS: Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's & Don'ts

As a special bonus we are including this Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's and Don'ts
 
There is a foundation of respect and common sense that must pervade all of your relationships if you want to create an extraordinary love. It doesn’t matter how well you waxed the car if you drive it off the road into a telephone pole.

These basic do’s, and don’ts, when violated, undermine any effort toward building an extraordinary love. The most powerful and expanding healings and epiphanies mean nothing unless these basics are handled.

GET MY GUIDE

“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

- Dr. Suess

REFLECTION QUESTION  | Answer the question(s) below

How is the 'bad' challenging experiencing in your relationship giving you more access to good?

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