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In ORDINARY relationships it’s common to get caught in these TOXIC cycles. It's common to be afraid your partner might leave you. It's common to to have power struggles and compromise and mini-resentments.. It's not your fault

Toxic cycles and petty fights are so common in relationships because we've been fed a big lie: 

Amazing Relationships are hardwork…

We've learned this big lie from TV, Books, and Movies. It turns out that healthy relationships are less interesting on the big screen than toxic difficult relationships. The most popular love story of all time, Romeo and Juliet?  Their story was so difficult it ended in tragedy. The popular movie "The Notebook"?  That was a very hard relationship, and was full of toxicity. What about a Disney classic, like Beauty and The Beast? That relationship is toxic and even violent. Now finding a movie with extraordinary relationships... That's gonna be much more difficult. It's not your fault that we learn to love from our Hollywood culture and media, but it's your responsibility to improve it. Now think back to a time in your relationship where it was amazing, you were really happy, and you had that feeling in your body where everything just felt right. Moments like this really feel effortless…

It’s counterintuitive, but those special moments are effortless. Having an amazing relationship isn't about doing all these extra things, but about healing the trauma-induced blockages that stops us from showing up in our relationship.Once you do that... you begin to inspire what's missing for both you and your partner and reach a place of serenity and joy, where the happiness in your relationship is effortless. Even when you have the occasional disagreement, it becomes a pathway to be closer with each other and feel your aliveness where you know to your core they love you and have your best interest in mind.