LIVE YOUR IDEAL LOVE STORY
Workshops, retreats, online courses, and 1:on:1 support for people who want extraordinary love
Want to learn how to handle being triggered?
In this fantastic (and free) video training you'll learn three simple strategies that'll teach you how to handle one of the most challenging aspects of any relationship...when you are triggered.
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Want to learn how to handle
being triggered?
with Bryan Franklin & Jennifer Russell
What sets you off?
In this fantastic (and free) video training you'll learn three simple strategies that'll teach you how to handle one of the most challenging aspects of any relationship...when you are triggered.

Hello
We’re Bryan & Jennifer.
Relationship experts, facilitators, authors and co-founders of Evolving Love.
Welcome! We're devoted to evolving how people love and helping you design the exact relationship you want. In our courses you'll learn the skills and practices that will rewrite your persistent patterns, permanently resolve your conflicts , and re-ignite your love story.
Our work and this site is dedicated to sharing our ideas, tools, and resources in the realms of love and relationship with you.
Couples that stay happy together use
completely different language
when speaking to each other.
It’s the language of Evolving Love
Learn the language of Evolving Love

Programs and Products

Evolving Love Workshops
Spend 2-3 days live and in person with Bryan Franklin and Jennifer Russell in one of their Evolving Love workshops ready to unearth the blindspots and core patterns that are likely in the way of you finding true love and partnership. Begin to rewrite your relationship DNA so you can heal and unlearn these patterns and raise the conversation and practices you are in so that you become an evolutionary partner. Come learn in an experiential and interactive environment.

1-on-1 Coaching (Singles/Couples)
In these private 1:on:1 sessions you’ll get a new, broader context for love, sex, intimacy as you work with Jennifer Russell and Bryan Franklin on your specific relationship patterns. No matter what you’re dealing with in your relationship, your relationship struggles are normal and can be overcome...but we often need outside help to end recurring fights once and for all. Sessions are offered both for those in relationships and those singles who want to be.

Evolving Love Private 4-Day Retreats
Join us for a romantic getaway in a 12,000 sq ft. mansion in South Lake Tahoe, tucked away on 7 acres of private land, with relationship and consciousness experts Bryan and Jennifer. We want to include you in the private processes and conversations that we’ve used to transform ourselves into the epic lovers we are today. Let us love you in all the places you’ve been hiding or lashing out - and find new patterns together that support who you most want to be.

“I’ve spent multi-hour sessions with them and it was very unifying. They have this uncanny ability to really allow you to see your partner’s perspectives and have your partner see yours. I saw a whole new way of doing love—got a whole new set of distinctions, new ideas, and new ways of seeing things. These are a couple of the best in the world.”
-Eben Pagan, Marketing & Dating Expert

Free Resources
How To Know If They're 'The One'
From Ordinary To Extraordinary Relationships
Live At The Intimacy Intensive

"My partner and I got a series of tools to not only resolve our perpetual fights and conflicts, but also upgrade the very fabric of our relationship to become an exquisite crucible that allows us to transmute our problems into remarkable growth opportunities. I honestly cannot even imagine trying do "love" or "relationships" without these tools. Do yourself a service and do whatever it takes to learn this."
-Kevin Kurgansky, The Breakup Doctor

Jennifer Russell & Bryan Franklin
About Us
Together we have led 20 years of impactful transformational programs and events designed to liberate people from self-imposed limiting beliefs and unlock their evolutionary potential. They incorporate the best of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), the human potential movement, family systems, attachment theory, collaborative systems, neuroscience, spiritual practices, tribal circling technologies, and sacred theater.
We work with couples to develop a deeper context for their relationship leading both partners towards their own evolution. They are a stand for relationships that have a 'both / and' rather than an 'either / or' relationship to Freedom and Devotion and realize the true potential that healing the divide between the masculine and feminine energies inside us has on creating a culture without war.
We first came together after having each experienced the more typical patterns most of us call 'relating.' Our dedication to transformation and our desire to become extraordinary lovers ourselves had us decide to deliberately build what we call an 'evolutionary partnership' brick by brick developing powerful models, relational skills, and a new evolving love lexicon along the way.
Today our relationship has become has an emblem for spiritual union as depicted in Android Jones‘ most recognized and popular visionary art piece entitled 'Union' - an image share and treasured by people from around the world.



"I feel like I've been waiting for this information all my life. My lens of what a relationship can be has widened and expanded. I now have a definition and knowing of what an extraordinary/ evolutionary relationship looks like/feels like and I know the way I do relationship and the way I work with my clients is forever changed."
-Maya Diamond, MFT Therapist MA