BREAKTHROUGH 2
10 Breakthroughs From
Ordinary To Extraordinary Love
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Breakthrough #2 - It's Not Supposed To Be Hard Work
IN AN ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP…RELATIONSHIPS ARE WORK!
IN AN EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIP...
RELATIONSHIP IS PRIVILEGE & PLAY!
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LESSON DESCRIPTION
Ordinarily, anyone who’s had a serious relationship knows that relationships are hard work. If you don’t “do the work” of staying connected and navigating each other’s triggers and shortcomings, your relationship will atrophy and eventually fall apart.
They are hard work because we tend to attract the people as partners who know how to push our buttons the best, and over time, even the smallest flaws in our partners can become difficult to be with because of repeating patterns.
In this lesson, we look at Breakthrough #2 as a totally different way to view our relationship. We'll explore how when you relate to relationship as work, you are bringing in the associations of burden, obligations, and all manner of heavy and unpleasant things and how those in extraordinary relationship relate to their relationships instead.
Share in the comments what privileges you have because of the relationships you are in that you are grateful for.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
CHALLENGE DAY#2
First, notice your natural tendency, do you tend to view them as WORK or as PRIVILEGE AND PLAY? On Day 1 hold the relationship as privilege and play. Your challenge is to have a conversation with your partner today to answer the following questions:
BONUS: Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's & Don'ts
As a special bonus we are including this Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's and Don'ts
There is a foundation of respect and common sense that must pervade all of your relationships if you want to create an extraordinary love. It doesn’t matter how well you waxed the car if you drive it off the road into a telephone pole.
These basic do’s, and don’ts, when violated, undermine any effort toward building an extraordinary love. The most powerful and expanding healings and epiphanies mean nothing unless these basics are handled.
“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."
- Dr. Suess
REFLECTION QUESTION | Answer the question(s) below
What privileges do you have because of the relationships you are in that you wouldn't have otherwise?
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The ability to see my patterns and wounds showing up so clearly. It is only in relating that I learn and grow myself. That is such a gift.