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BREAKTHROUGH 9

10 Breakthroughs From
Ordinary To Extraordinary Love

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LESSON 9

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Breakthrough #9 - How To Really Love An Inner Child

IN AN ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP…
YOU BECOME A CARETAKER FOR MY WOUNDED CHILD

IN AN EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIP…
YOU BECOME A PLAYMATE FOR MY HEALTHY CHILD

RESOURCES

Workbook

Audio Lesson 9

LESSON DESCRIPTION

Ordinarily, you expect your partner to learn your triggers and sensitivities and stay clear of them, effectively caretaking your wounded inner child. While no one wants their partner to play “mommy” or “daddy” all the time, one way you know that you are loved is that your partner takes care not to do the things that they know bother you or make you uncomfortable.

In this lesson, we'll look at the 9th Breakthrough and why you don't want to take on the 'parent' role in your relationship, even when it's tempting to do so.

You'll discover what those in extraordinary relationships do instead and how they interact with the younger parts of each other.

Share in the comments a way you might create a safe and inviting environment for your partner’s healthy child to come out and play.

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Upgrade the unhealthy personal beliefs you might be carrying around and install a set of 10 evolutionary principals

Complete a thorough self-investigation and inventory of the ways you unconsciously support and undermine your partnership

Discover the 9th breakthrough of extraordinary relating

Learn why trying to reparent each other in your relationship will lead you astray

Explore an orientation to the wounded parts of your partner that will lead you towards extraordinary love

CHALLENGE DAY#9

In your relationships when things are challenging do you tend to parent your partner or do you tend to encourage your partner to re-parent themselves? When things are challenging, does your partner tend to parent you or do they encourage you to parent yourselves?

Create a playful date experience for you and your partner bringing the youthful, playful spirit of your healthy child to come out and play (i.e. go to the park, play games, create art, role play, go to a panic room experience together, go to a theme park,)

BONUS: Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's & Don'ts

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As a special bonus we are including this Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's and Don'ts

There is a foundation of respect and common sense that must pervade all of your relationships if you want to create an extraordinary love. It doesn’t matter how well you waxed the car if you drive it off the road into a telephone pole.

These basic do’s, and don’ts, when violated, undermine any effort toward building an extraordinary love. The most powerful and expanding healings and epiphanies mean nothing unless these basics are handled.

GET MY GUIDE

“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

- Dr. Suess

REFLECTION QUESTION | Answer the question(s) below

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What are the ways you might create a safe and inviting environment for your partners healthy child to come out and play?