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10 Breakthroughs From
Ordinary To Extraordinary Love


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Breakthrough #3 - You Might Be Making The Wrong Lists





Ordinarily, we create a list of the qualities and attributes that are most important for us to have in a prospective partner. In this lesson, we'll look at why this might actually be leading us astray and what we focus on instead to bring more extraordinary relationship into our lives.

When we are trying to figure out if an ordinary relationship is going to work out, we look at how well our partner meets our needs in the important areas of our life. Are they successful enough? Sensitive enough? Caring enough? Sexy enough? Spiritual enough? Making sure that our partner measures up is an important prerequisite to a fulfilling relationship....or is it?

In this lesson we'll look at a more appropriate place to focus that will set the stage for a more ideal match for us.

Share in the comments the ways you notice you might be evaluating others and how you might use those times to remind you to focus more on evolving yourself.


Upgrade the unhealthy personal beliefs you might be carrying around and install a set of 10 evolutionary principals
Complete a thorough self-investigation and inventory of the ways you unconsciously support and undermine your partnership
Discover the 3rd breakthrough of extraordinary relating
Learn how creating lists of the qualities that you most want in a partner can actually lead you astray
Explore what to focus on instead that will create an extraordinary partnership


Spend one day on a 'no complaint diet'.   Bring attention to how often you are either silently or outwardly in the ‘evaluating mindset’ of yourself or others and consciously shift into an evolving mindset.   Your challenge is to be on the ‘no complaint diet’ and ask yourself these questions:

In your relationships do you tend to EVALUATE OTHERS or EVOLVE YOURSELF?
Did you make it the whole day without complaining? (how about the conversations in your head?
How did your 'No Complaint Diet' go?  What if anything tended to trip you up the most?
Were you able to experience more moments of present perfection and have an appreciation for the present? 

BONUS: Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's & Don'ts

As a special bonus we are including this Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's and Don'ts

There is a foundation of respect and common sense that must pervade all of your relationships if you want to create an extraordinary love. It doesn’t matter how well you waxed the car if you drive it off the road into a telephone pole.

These basic do’s, and don’ts, when violated, undermine any effort toward building an extraordinary love. The most powerful and expanding healings and epiphanies mean nothing unless these basics are handled.

“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

- Dr. Suess

REFLECTION QUESTION  | Answer the question(s) below

Notice the ways you might be evaluating others? Could you turn each of those evaluations into an area in yourself you might evolve? Name of of those areas and share it below.

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