10 Breakthroughs From
Ordinary To Extraordinary Love
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IN AN ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP …
YOU ASK, ‘AM I HAPPY?’
IN AN EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIP…YOU ASK, ‘AM I EXTRAORDINARY?’
Ordinarily, we evaluate our relationship (and our partner) by asking ourselves “Am I happy?” If the answer is “Yes!”, then the relationship is working. If the answer is “No”, then you look for the problem with the relationship that is causing your unhappiness. If the answer is “No” too often, then the relationship is probably not working out.
In this lesson, we'll look at the 8th breakthrough and ask a very different question of ourselves that can lead us to a more extraordinary love.
Explore how asking this question can not only create more happiness but more longevity and fulfillment over time.
Share in the comments one way your relationship has made you more extraordinary in a way that you likely would not have become on your own?
In your relationships what questions are you asking yourself to determine whether your relationship is working and thriving? What are you using as a measure? Notice where you are seeking comfort, happiness, or safety specifically in order to avoid something. Your challenge is:
As a special bonus we are including this Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's and Don'ts
There is a foundation of respect and common sense that must pervade all of your relationships if you want to create an extraordinary love. It doesn’t matter how well you waxed the car if you drive it off the road into a telephone pole.
These basic do’s, and don’ts, when violated, undermine any effort toward building an extraordinary love. The most powerful and expanding healings and epiphanies mean nothing unless these basics are handled.
“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."
- Dr. Suess
REFLECTION QUESTION | Answer the question(s) below
What difficulty in your relationships has lead you to being more extraordinary