BREAKTHROUGH 8

10 Breakthroughs From
Ordinary To Extraordinary Love

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Breakthrough #8 Focusing On Happiness Doesn't Make You Happy

IN AN ORDINARY RELATIONSHIP …
YOU ASK, ‘AM I HAPPY?’


IN AN EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIP…YOU ASK, ‘AM I EXTRAORDINARY?’


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LESSON DESCRIPTION

Ordinarily, we evaluate our relationship (and our partner) by asking ourselves “Am I happy?” If the answer is “Yes!”, then the relationship is working. If the answer is “No”, then you look for the problem with the relationship that is causing your unhappiness. If the answer is “No” too often, then the relationship is probably not working out.

In this lesson, we'll look at the 8th breakthrough and ask a very different question of ourselves that can lead us to a more extraordinary love.

Explore how asking this question can not only create more happiness but more longevity and fulfillment over time.

Share in the comments one way your relationship has made you more extraordinary in a way that you likely would not have become on your own?

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Upgrade the unhealthy personal beliefs you might be carrying around and install a set of 10 evolutionary principals
Complete a thorough self-investigation and inventory of the ways you unconsciously support and undermine your partnership
Discover the 8th breakthrough of extraordinary relating
Learn how asking the question 'Am I happy?' isn't always the highest quality question to ask in your relationship and why it doesn't always lead you towards the real satisfaction you are wanting
Explore an entirely different question that extraordinary lovers tend to ask each other and how that question leads them towards the happiness, fullfillment, and longevity they seek

CHALLENGE DAY#8

In your relationships what questions are you asking yourself to determine whether your relationship is working and thriving? What are you using as a measure?  Notice where you are seeking comfort, happiness, or safety specifically in order to avoid something. Your challenge is:

Think of one thing in your relationship that might not have made you happy but helped you become more extraordinary.  Take the time to sit your partner down and thank them for helping you create the conditions for your growth.

BONUS: Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's & Don'ts

As a special bonus we are including this Relationship Guide - The 8 Basic Do's and Don'ts
 

There is a foundation of respect and common sense that must pervade all of your relationships if you want to create an extraordinary love. It doesn’t matter how well you waxed the car if you drive it off the road into a telephone pole.

These basic do’s, and don’ts, when violated, undermine any effort toward building an extraordinary love. The most powerful and expanding healings and epiphanies mean nothing unless these basics are handled.

“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

- Dr. Suess

REFLECTION QUESTION  | Answer the question(s) below

What difficulty in your relationships has lead you to being more extraordinary

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