If you haven't completed the "3rd Pole" exercise from the Evolving Love Retreat yet, or if things have been feeling really out of sync for more than a couple of weeks with your partner. Set some quality time aside and examine the context of your relationship. Jennifer!
"This Is Love: To Fly Toward A Secret Sky, To Cause A Hundred Veils To Fall Each Moment. First To Let Go Of Life. Finally, To Take A Step Without Feet.”
"Context is deciscive."
- Nathan Otto
It’s likely that every 2 - 7 years you will find that the context for your relationship just doesn’t feel exciting to you anymore. Either you’ve outgrown your content, or your values have shifted, or you realized that you don’t fit into the roles that your relationship has cast for you any more.
With the help of an awesome therapist or an Evolving Love Specialist, enter a process to deliberately shift the narrative that you are living your life and your relationship inside of. This is perhaps the scariest times any relationship can go through, because there is no guarantees that you will still belong together on the other end. But all stories end, so allowing your narrative to die peacefully without destroying you or the things you love most is the final skill that must be mastered in order to maintain an evolutionary love relationship.
As a BONUS for your participation in this Evolving Love Course we've included our Daily, Weekly, Monthly Practices course which includes an email delivered to your inbox each week for 1 year. The email includes one of the Evolving Love Practices plus some step by step instructions so you can take what you've learned from this course and bring it into your daily life.
“Love is a zendo, a spiritual dojo and sometimes a spa….We fall in love with (i.e.: hire) the sexiest, smartest, most advanced version of the parent we have the most wounds with in order to heal and transcend the hidden shackles from those wounds. It’s the most important job we ever interview for and should be taken very seriously, so never settle."
- Annie Lalla
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