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Module 4

Resolving Conflicts Permanently

LESSON 6: DEMO: Jennifer Sees Bryan's Perfection



In this lesson, you'll witness Step Two of the "Perfect Vision" conflict resolution process. Now Jennifer sees Bryan as perfect in the present moment, and relaxes any sense that he is wrong for how he is thinking and feeling. See where this is easy for her and also where she may have some difficulty at first.

As with before, Jennifer is taking responsibility for her own judgments now by acknowledging that Bryan is not wrong for how he thought, felt, and acted. Even if those thoughts, feelings, and actions were painful for Jennifer, Bryan is not "bad" for having and doing them.


Jennifer sees Bryan's perfection in the conflict resolution process
Notice that she is drawing on her own experiences to form what she says, and is not just repeating what he has already told her
Notice how Bryan and Jennifer check in with each other to see if they are on track, and make adjustments depending on the answer

“Ultimately it’s not with who, but when you choose to surrender."

- Lisa Citore

REFLECTION QUESTION  | Answer the question(s) below

What did you notice about how Jennifer spoke to Bryan?

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