In this lesson, you'll witness Step Two of the "Perfect Vision" conflict resolution process. Now Jennifer sees Bryan as perfect in the present moment, and relaxes any sense that he is wrong for how he is thinking and feeling. See where this is easy for her and also where she may have some difficulty at first.
As with before, Jennifer is taking responsibility for her own judgments now by acknowledging that Bryan is not wrong for how he thought, felt, and acted. Even if those thoughts, feelings, and actions were painful for Jennifer, Bryan is not "bad" for having and doing them.
“Ultimately it’s not with who, but when you choose to surrender."
- Lisa Citore
REFLECTION QUESTION | Answer the question(s) below
What did you notice about how Jennifer spoke to Bryan?