Step 2 in our Perfect Vision Resolution Process is designed to help you formulate the present perfection and future vision of your current or previous partner before you open your mouth or interact with them about the conflict. This step helps you let go of the judgment and blame that may be covering up the deeper story.
You will journal your responses by answering a list of specific questions that will help you see the present perfect of your partner. These questions will walk you step-by-step through this process. Download the workbook below to see the list of questions. Share with us the name of the conflict you will be using this process to resolve.
“The shadow is not a problem to be solved or an enemy to be conquered, but a fertile field to be cultivated. When we dig our hands into its rich soil, we will discover the potent seeds of the people we most desire to be."
- Debbie Ford
REFLECTION QUESTION | Answer the question(s) below
In what ways did the questions from this exercise help broaden your perspective on your partner? Were you able to see more of their present perfection - even in relationship to the very thing you've been triggered by?