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Module 5

Resolving Conflicts Step-by-Step

STEP 5: See Your Partner's Perfection



Now you are ready to begin actually resolving your conflict using the Perfect Vision process in Step Five - Present Perfection with your partner.

In this lesson, you will use the materials and practices you've had so far to prepare and speak directly to your partner, seeing them as perfect.

It's ok if you don't get it right on the first try. Use the prompts we provide and the notes you've taken from steps 1-4 to guide you.

If you want to watch this lesson several times before trying it yourself, that's fine. Remember, though, that the change that you can benefit the most from is the change you make in real time with your partner, talking about real issues.

Share below in the comments how you did holding their present perfection.


Use the Perfect Vision process to see your partner as perfect
See the beauty and approval that is waiting just on the other side of even the most divisive conflicts
Get step by step instructions to help you have this conversation go well the first time
Discover what you might have missed and what you could say that will have them totally melt and feel more connected to you
Learn how to listen openly and generously to your partner without getting triggered

“The shadow is not a problem to be solved or an enemy to be conquered, but a fertile field to be cultivated. When we dig our hands into its rich soil, we will discover the potent seeds of the people we most desire to be."

- Debbie Ford

REFLECTION QUESTION  | Answer the question(s) below

On a scale of 1-10, did your partner feel you were holding their present perfection at an 8 or higher? If so what worked best which you might continue to do? If not, what could you commit to do more of?

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