Module 5

Resolving Conflicts Step-by-Step
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STEP 7: Sharing Your Best Future Vision

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LESSON DESCRIPTION

In Step 7 you'll be sharing your future vision with your partner and surrendering to your partner's vision for you.

In this lesson, learn the step-by-step transformation process to make sure that you feel like your complaints are being heard and heeded, but without making your partner feel wrong, bad, or driving distance between you. Very likely the negative emotions have been mostly released, and you can start to feel being on the “same page” with your partner again. When your partner describes the future vision that they see for you, listen for the ways that it is inspiring. Listen with your eyes, ears, body, heart, and spirit.

Imagine all the ways that this change might benefit you. If your resistance or judgments come up again, that’s ok. Breathe and let them go. Whether or not you can see it clearly, what you're hearing is, in fact, the highest leverage change you can make, and the shortest path to becoming who you most want to be.

Share in the comments how you feel now about the original conflict. What’s shifted? How do you see yourself and your partner now in relation to this conflict?

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Learn how to communicate an inspiring future vision to your partner that has them inspired, ready, and excited to become - moving beyond the resistance that has held this conflict in place
Discover what creates a sense of commitment from you and your partner
Learn how to have one of the critical conversations that can resolve a conflict permanently
Get on the same page with your partner about who you each are becoming together and how your relationship is helping you on that journey.
Learn how to see the best in your partner, even when you’d like them to change their behavior, and learn how to give feedback that your partner can’t wait to hear and integrate.

“The shadow is not a problem to be solved or an enemy to be conquered, but a fertile field to be cultivated. When we dig our hands into its rich soil, we will discover the potent seeds of the people we most desire to be."

- Debbie Ford

REFLECTION QUESTION  | Answer the question(s) below

How do you feel now about the original conflict that you chose to resolve using this process? What has shifted for you about how you see yourself, your partner, and the conflict?

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