Commonplace, ordinary views lead to having commonplace, ordinary relationships. In this lesson, we look at 10 such beliefs that seem like they make sense on the surface, but actually, strangle the magic out of what could otherwise be epic and lasting love affairs, and then offer a new, broader context for each that can serve as the pillars of an extraordinary love relationship.

For each pair, notice the part of you that wants to agree with the “ordinary” view, and then let yourself be expanded by the way extraordinary relationships are held.

In this lesson, we look at Breakthrough #1, where in an ordinary relationship we tend to have a fixed and more stable sense of self. We'll explore a different orientation which has you fixed on an entirely different place which makes it possible for you to continue to relate even as you are both growing and changing.

Share in the comments what happens for you when you imagine being completely changed by an evolutionary partnership? Is it scary? Is it exciting? Is their resistance and contraction? Is there adventure and expansion?