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Module 7

10 Breakthroughs From Ordinary To Extraordinary Love

Breakthrough #2: It's Not Supposed To Be Hard Work



Ordinarily, anyone who’s had a serious relationship knows that relationships are hard work. If you don’t “do the work” of staying connected and navigating each other’s triggers and shortcomings, your relationship will atrophy and eventually fall apart.

They are hard work because we tend to attract the people as partners who know how to push our buttons the best, and over time, even the smallest flaws in our partners can become difficult to be with because of repeating patterns.

In this lesson, we look at Breakthrough #2 as a totally different way to view our relationship. We'll explore how when you relate to relationship as work, you are bringing in the associations of burden, obligations, and all manner of heavy and unpleasant things and how those in extraordinary relationship relate to their relationships instead.

Share in the comments what privileges you have because of the relationships you are in that you are grateful for.


Upgrade the unhealthy personal beliefs you might be carrying around and install a set of 10 evolutionary principals
Complete a thorough self-investigation and inventory of the ways you unconsciously support and undermine your partnership
Discover the 3rd breakthrough of extraordinary relating
Learn how relating to your relationship as 'work' can bring some of the things you don't want into how you relate
Discover how with the best of intentions, you might be creating a sense of heaviness, obligation, and burden into your relationship
Explore how to orient to your relationship instead so that it feels extraordinary

“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."

- Dr. Suess

REFLECTION QUESTION  | Answer the question(s) below

What privileges do you have because of the relationships you are in that you wouldn't have otherwise?

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