Ordinarily, we create a list of the qualities and attributes that are most important for us to have in a prospective partner. In this lesson, we'll look at why this might actually be leading us astray and what we focus on instead to bring more extraordinary relationship into our lives.

When we are trying to figure out if an ordinary relationship is going to work out, we look at how well our partner meets our needs in the important areas of our life. Are they successful enough? Sensitive enough? Caring enough? Sexy enough? Spiritual enough? Making sure that our partner measures up is an important prerequisite to a fulfilling relationship....or is it?

In this lesson we'll look at a more appropriate place to focus that will set the stage for a more ideal match for us.

Share in the comments the ways you notice you might be evaluating others and how you might use those times to remind you to focus more on evolving yourself.