Ordinarily, there are good parts of the relationship and bad parts. Maybe the sex is great, but the conversation isn’t very stimulating. Maybe you feel loved and supported, but not stretched and challenged to be the best version of yourself. The common view is to focus as much as possible on extending the good, and do what you can to make the bad parts tolerable, so you can move on as quickly as possible back to what’s good. In an ordinary relationship, the good outweighs the bad.
In this lesson, we'll look at the 7th breakthrough and how 'the bad' isn't always so bad as it can unlock the very thing we need most.
Share in the comments one example of a challenge or difficulty in your relationship that is actually giving you more access to good.
“You know you are in love when you don’t want to fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams."
- Dr. Suess
REFLECTION QUESTION | Answer the question(s) below
How is the 'bad' challenging experiencing in your relationship giving you more access to good?