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Module 6

There's More Than One Reason for Conflict

LESSON 4: It's Not All About Your Childhood (But Some Of It Is)



In this lesson, we explore the anatomy of conflict from the third layer (-2) - our childhood historical pain. Often in our conflicts, we regress into younger versions of ourselves - throwing tantrums, feeling small, acting from places that don't look or sound like the full adult version of us. In this lesson, we'll look at where behaviors like this come from - looking back at our early childhood in our first 7 years. when we begin to question whether we are loved or lovable.

We begin to experience disapproval and punishment. In this lesson we'll look at the decisions we make about ourselves, the world, and the people around us that lead to conflict later.

Share in the comments whether you are aware of age regression in your conflicts. What is the born on date of that experience?


Learn the third layer of conflict that impacts our interactions
Discover hot to recognize when this layer is active in your conflicts
Learn what has you or your partner regress when you are having conflicts
Explore what we can do when we are bringing our past childhood wounds into our present relationships
Learn a process that will help you find the similarities between the conflicts you are in now and the initial childhood pain that triggered that response

“Emotional Maturity means that your awareness operates even during the most profound emotional states."

- Richard Rudd

REFLECTION QUESTION  | Answer the question(s) below

Recognizing this layer: Have you noticed any age regression in your behavior when you are in a conflict with someone? What are you feeling in that moment? What is the 'born on' date of that experience (the first time you remember having that feeling)?

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