In this lesson we review Perfect Vision, which is also the seventh layer of conflict (+2).
Viewing conflict from the perspective of perfection and vision can turn a potentially ugly conversation into something inspiring and beautiful. In this lesson, learn how Perfect Vision fits into the other layers of conflict.
Follow the root of "complaint" all the way to the positive vision. When you share the positive vision in it's raw, vulnerable form instead of as a complaint, you become a co-creator of a positive future, instead of a nagger or complainer.
Follow the root of "defensiveness" all the way back to the positive desire to appreciate the present moment as perfect. When you share the positive appreciation in it's raw, vulnerable form instead of as defensiveness, you open up possibilities of co-creation instead of shutting them down.
Share in the comments below a common complaint you have and then transform it into a positive future vision that you are actually holding for them.
“Emotional Maturity means that your awareness operates even during the most profound emotional states."
- Richard Rudd
REFLECTION QUESTION | Answer the question(s) below
Recognizing this layer: Look at a common complaint you have about your partner, what positive future vision are you actually holding for them? How is their current behavior a triumph over the past?